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5 comments about Tokyo Pink Guide.

1. Humorous and entertaining guide to the hush-hush "adult" entertainment in Japan. While gaijin aren't normally allowed such treats, this books makes for an interesting and amusing read on the lifestyle of Japan.



2. This book describes a lot of things that foreigners living in Tokyo might not realize even exist in Japan. For that matter, many Japanese are likely unaware of some of the types of places covered in his book. I wouldn't say that Japanese are more relaxed and casual about life - precisely the opposite - but I would agree with another reviewer in saying that this book shows that perhaps Japanese society is far more comfortable with sexuality and far less Victorian than American society is. It is quite an educational read and may dispel a few misconceptions, or may confirm what you already suspected! One omission from the book - couples' kissaten. Couples' kissaten are VERY popular within a particular community in Tokyo, fairly widespread, but there is no mention of them at all in this book.



3. Other than the maps guiding people to the major red light zones of the Kanto area, 90% of the information in this book is pure fiction and/or wishful thinking. All you need to know about night life in Tokyo can be had for the price of a little conversation at virtually any pub or bar in Tokyo. As an aside, the author's unjustly slanderous treatment of the Library bar in Ogikubo caused the owner to shut the doors as hordes of thrill seekers invaded his (up to that time) peaceful little corner bar. If you have purchased this book, don't bother looking for the Library, 'cause it's gone.

   If you want a good book, get Nicholas Bournoff's "Pink Samurai" instead.




4. Humerous and informative, "Tokyo Pink Guide" is a definative study of the current "entertainment" activities commonly available in Metropolitan Tokyo. It not only specifies exact areas and locations, but describes,in detail, protocols and cultural eccentricities. Remember, Japan is predominately Buddhist and Shinto. Unlike Western faiths, the myriad personal relations between humans are not verboten in "proper society". Ergo, life is more casual and relaxed, and without the stigma that we experience in America. I'd love to see a Part 2!



5. This book gives some interesting and little known information on, for example, the sex slave industry and the import of foreign prostitutes, the gay scene, and other aspects of Japan's "nightlife". Unfortunately, like many of the men who frequent Asia, the author could care less about some of the uglier aspects of the industry. He doesn't moralize because he basically has no morals.

   My main job in Japan was English teaching. I used to ask my students what they thought of places like Kabuki-cho, which is one of Tokyo's better known red-light areas. They would look embarassed and say that when walking through there they felt "dirty". I found this odd, considering that the average Japanese is self-described as being anti-religious, and most of them have no cultural training in Christian morals.

   Additionally, when talking to my female friends (including my Fillipina roomate) who had Japanese husbands or boyfriends, the biggest complaint seemed to be the lack of sex or affection in the relationship. One of the women expressed the opinion that most Japanese men were impotent. A lot of news articles in the English press in Tokyo point to the general uptight attitude of the average Japanese toward matters of sex in general.

   A lot of foreign men see Japan as a place where men's "needs" are dealt with in a "non-moralizing" fashion. Well, that's pretty true if you are dealing with any aspect of the prostitution industry, anywhere in the world. I can name a number of places in the US, mainly in Nevada, San Francisco, and West Hollywood, and any red light area of any major city, where a man on the make won't come into contact with a single moral admonishment when in pursuit of a good time.

   One cultural difference that men find attractive about Japan is that women in Japan (and Asia in general) are brought up to cater to men, at least on the surface. Japanese women find North American and European men attractive because these men were raised in a culture where they were taught that ladies should be treated with kid gloves. In addition, Japanese women, unlike their Korean counterparts, don't really care that much about looks. It's no accident that Japanese women and Western men find each other charming.

   The Confucian system puts men over women. Consequently, sex is thought of as something that males shouldn't need to control - it's sort of treated in the same manner as passing gas - it's something that "can't be helped" (shoganai). Sex (for men, at least) is looked upon as a bodily function - it certainly is not attached to romance as it is in the West. So, if unromantic, casual, no strings, mechanical sex is your thing, Japan (and Asia) is the place for you.

   This domination by males explains in part the wealth of graphic sex in the Japanese media. A number of American and other foreign men that I worked with complained that the average Japanese male's ideas about sex were "so 6th grade". Most of the sexually explicit material I have seen in the media there certainly does point to a low level of maturity on the part of the creators and their audience.

   The idea of "needs" is not extended to women. Nowhere on the planet is prostitution a profession that is considered honorable, nor is a woman who "sleeps around". Japanese women still go to plastic surgeons to have their hymen repaired before marriage, so they can become "virgins" once again.

   Clemens and his bretheren see nothing wrong with double standards, as long as it suits their needs, or as Dr. Phil would say "If it ain't broke, don't fix it". The tone of this book is a couple of frat boys out on the town, living it up, giving tips on where to find girls that put out. And that's all well and good, because this is a guide to prostitution in Tokyo, nothing more.

   The problem with this book is that it takes a small aspect of the entire Japanese picture and pretends that that's what Japan is all about. Well, imagine being a visitor to the US, and spending 90% of your time in places like Las Vegas and Castro Street, or a local strip club. Is that what America is all about? Hardly.

   Having been a bar hostess (for a short time) in Tokyo, and having shared a house with a SE Asian bar hostess (whose Japanese visa was obtained by her Yakuza friends), I am somewhat familiar with certain aspects of Japanese "nightlife". If you want a truer look at what goes on in a hostess bar, better to get "Butterflies of the Night", by Lisa Louis.

1 comments about All Japan: The Catalogue of Everything Japanese.

1. Liza Dalby's Catalogue of Everything Japanese reflects her extensive knowledge of the country. After living in Japan as a teenager and becoming the only non-Japanese woman to become a geisha, Dalby displays an extensive knowledge of all things Japanese in this amazing book.

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1 comments about New Tokyo Bilingual Pocket Atlas.

1. I found the Kodansha International set of books helpful when I lived in Japan but this edition of their Tokyo Atlas is a little difficult due to its small size and a rather heavy grid drawn over the map content. (Other books in the series made use of grids but the patterns used finer lines than this edition.) This book does not give a high degree of detail, so if you will be hunting for addresses you may want something more. (I see reviews for Tokyo City Atlas: A Bilingual Guide which

   states that the detail is higher than Tokyo Bilingual Pocket Atlas. Both are evidently published by Kodansha International.) Hints: Tokyo station IS VERY BIG, so don't expect any book to get you through it easily. Also, even an official train system map can mislead the viewer into mistaking pairs of neighboring stations for single facilities. As I lived in Japan for a while this book may be good enough for me but I would consider other books for friends traveling to Tokyo for the first time.

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1 comments about Good Tokyo Restaurants (Kondasha Guide).

1. When I lived in Tokyo for a month and a half in 1993, I bought this book and ate at 5 or 6 of the restaurants Rick Kennedy recommends. They were all excellent. The Italian restaurant he recommended remains the best I have visited to date in any part of the world. Mr. Kennedy brings you to neighborhoods and places you would not necessarily have run into, and helps you to find the hidden gems therein. Even after I returned, I would read this book for fun because the atmosphere that Mr. Kennedy evokes as he writes reminded me of the places I had visited and lived. It is a great book, and I am sorry to see it is out of print, as I am going back to Tokyo to see some of the soccer World Cup games and was looking forward to seeing what other jewels Mr. Kennedy had found.